How to be the best you can be everyday?
Now there’s the million-dollar question? How to be the best you can everyday? How are you supposed to give your best all the time? Why is it necessary to be just as open to receiving what you rightfully deserve? Are you used to putting pressure on yourself to succeed?
Well, this is all normal. It is human to ponder on what this means. Arguably, on some level, we’ve all been there. I am pretty sure that most, if not all, of us, desire to be our best version. But, we cannot self-actualize if we have not dealt with our most pressing issues. The same concept applies to chakras. You cannot expect to unblock your crown chakra until you get to the root of your chakra blockages.
To be honest, moving forward is deceptively simple. Part of the process of progress is becoming ever so mindful of what retrogressive habits have been holding you back. Quite frankly, we all must learn something new in everyday life. And, sometimes that includes unlearning what you thought you knew to be true.
That said if you are not living a life that doesn’t have you burning for your next adventure, that’s not your best. In my opinion, being your best is the very definition of true living. Nonetheless, you must accept where you are at now. One of the best ways to radical self-acceptance is meditation. This is the act of tapping into your source of energy and being the best you can be.
Thus, this article will examine how to be the best you can be everyday?
- Live for your Passions
- Congratulate your Progress
- Focus on Expansion
- See the Worst to Eradicate
- Set the Intention
- Allow yourself to Fall
- Be a Lightworker
- Learn from your Mistakes
- Live Each Day like it’s your Best
Live for your Passions
Again, aren’t a number of things that give you a reason to live your best life? If not, that’s okay. It is never too late to reignite the flame burning deep inside of your heart. Indeed, it is not a chasm of darkness to neither know nor be aligned with who you are meant to be. Yet, life is for living. Merely existing is not the way to be your best.
And, even though most sell themselves sort, they are worth a billion bucks. SO are YOU. There is something in this world that gives you a zest for living. A certain thrill that makes your existence all but exhilarating, purposeful, and awesome. As you can see, true living is allowing yourself to feel alive. Moreover, the more you focus your energy on being alive and well, the more you are going to be the embodiment of this miraculous energy.
Imagine how much happier people would be if they dared to follow their hearts. As you can see, happy people can only make other people happy. The same rationale applies to those who make misery their fortune. Except, misery is no way to profit. So, whether it is painting, blogging, YouTubing, traveling, or being a philanthropist, you and your passions are for life.
The more you cultivate your passions, the more you can expand in their livelihood. Thus, as you enter this state of love, you flow into your most elevated, high-vibe version. Be the life of your passions and then some!
Congratulate your Progress
Without a doubt, you are not the same person you were five seconds ago. Despite how change-averse human beings are, change is the very fabric of who we are. We are always evolving, ready or not. So, why not be ready?
Why not celebrate how far you’ve come on your journey? You are going to feel so much better when you are grateful. After all, no one is as great as you are. There is no competition. You are one of a kind. As a result, your journey into personhood is worth celebrating.
You are SO WORTH the congratulations. All the things you have survived are no lie. Only you know how much you had to endure. And, like a diamond, you must pat yourself on the back for all the pressures that sustained you into such a legend.
Focus on Expansion
If you have ever felt at your worst, you probably felt contracted. Perhaps you felt like you contracted the worst life has to offer. In reality, this is not you. This doesn’t even remotely resemble true living at its finest. So, even if you are dealing with something that makes you feel contracted, at least do something that expands yourself regularly.
Real talk, we cannot run away from everything that makes us feel contracted. But, we can walk away from allowing anything to make us feel contracted. Perhaps, it is a lingering attachment to pain and suffering. Perhaps you have some limiting beliefs that cause you to self-sabotage.
Whatever the cause might be, the ultimate distraction is yourself. No matter what is transpiring around you, it is ultimately your choice to either let it contract you or expand you. Yes, this is a spectrum on which we all fall.
In the end, focus on expansion to be the best you can be. Whatever you focus on grows. Grow in expansion.
See the Worst to Eradicate
Sometimes not seeing is a choice. Other times our blindness is everything but an indoctrination. In other words, we cannot always see off the tip of our noses. Quite frequently, this is when we need to see the most.
Please understand this is a product of the habits you’ve acquired. But, there is still hope. After all, dusk is always the darkest before dawn. But, before you get to dawn, you have the see the dusk for what it is. To reiterate, you cannot be your best if you haven’t dealt with your worst.
Matter of factly, not seeing your worst can lead to being blinded by your best. So, take the time to reflect. Journal your experiences. Document what triggers you. Be mindful of what brings out your worst. Note your best is yet to come.
Then, you’ll see that the worst part is already behind you. You are amazing, wonderful, and invaluable!!
Yet, first and foremost, you must eradicate to accentuate. Not before is as I always say.
Set the Intention
Are you ready? Are you ready to set the intention on how to be the best you can be everyday? Well, I assume the answer is YES. You wouldn’t have made it this far if you weren’t ready. Your progress is certainly not in vain. Nonetheless, “if you are failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” Thus, you must develop a succinct vision of what you want.
What does being your best look like? What does it feel like? How does your best inspire others to align with their greatest truths?
How do I set the intention?
Honestly, you can start by saying, “I am ready.” So, what are you ready for? Are there obstacles in your life that inhibit the flow of your progress? What are these inhibitions and why are they there? How can you BREAK free?
Well, try to affirm in the present, the positive, and be as specific and clear (succinct!) as possible.
For example, instead of saying, “I am ready to smile more often,” try rephrasing that into “I am ready to live a happy, long, and prosperous life that fulfills me every day.”
After all, you get out of it what you put into it. Why not start investing in yourself today and make that change?
Allow yourself to Fail
However, if you faint at the sight of failure as though it were blood, then that’s where you are at. That’s your failure and that’s okay. Matter of factly, that’s what makes you so brilliant, intelligent, and legendary in the first place.
How would you be your best if you didn’t experience the worst? As such, why not save the best for last?
Better yet, why not be mindful of how last is certainly everything but least?
If you know that you aren’t your best, embrace that failure. Keep doing your best. Keep your head up and your shoulders erect. Just know that you are on the path to your greatest version therein. You are a success story in the making.
Moreover, when thinking of epic failure, note that you are way more epic than the latter. One step at a time!!
Be a Lightworker
You are greatly needed in this world. I repeat, “you are greatly needed in this world.” Don’t allow the darkness to obscure the light. As such, you are the light in the darkness. You are the light irrespective of your struggles.
Without a doubt, meditation is a form of inner light working. You are emanating your best version out into the universe. You are slowing down to speed up to further evolve your purpose.
So, the best way to be a lightworker is to be your best world. Whatever you think is missing in this world, be it. Work on not focusing your time and energy on loss and limitation. Instead, focus on the abundance of your heart. What does that look like? How would that manifest without the weight of the world?
Who would you be if not for the darkness obscuring your vision? How must you identify with the light?
Well, the ego makes it quite easy to over-identify with anything remotely negative. Perhaps the best way to spread your light is to be mindful, not wary, of how darkness infiltrates.
As you can see, if you are to help the world, you must help yourself.
Yet, when you help other people (no strings attached!), you ultimately help yourself. So, in any way, shape, or form, be a lightworker. Allow the world to see just how golden, divine, and spectacular you are. Emanate your best frequency.
Learn From Your Mistakes
However, after a while, you cannot keep bumping your head. You have to look within and find another way.
Without a doubt, we all experience a form of mental relapse. But, staying stuck has never helped anyone.
There is truth within the error. Moreover, this is what it means to be human. Being aware of the defects in your nature, biologically and otherwise, and making progress accordingly. Again, the goal is not perfection but that of progress.
Some doors are closed for a reason. Stop banging on them!
To be honest, one of the best mistakes to learn from is beating yourself up when you do regress. Allow yourself to mess up, fail, and rise to the challenge once again. But, be an eternal student. As such, you become your best when you activate a blueprint for how to learn from your mistakes. In other words, accumulate a wealth of knowledge to invest in your best.
Live Each Day Like it’s Your Best
In the end, you are the power. You are the power to make everyday life the best it can be. Why?
You are a master manifestor. Nothing or no one can stop you but yourself. That said, now that no matter how many obstacles are on your course, you will cross the finish line and then some.
Yet, this is the irony of the as-if principle. As if is already in existence. As if is reality as it is. You are a co-creator of any reality you decide to manifest and thus blueprint. So, why not live your best reality with every breath you take?
Listen to positive music, sing to the melody of your soul, get out in nature, absorb the sun, hang out with inspirational people, live for your passions, reach out when you need help, and ultimately do whatever feels good. Go with this feeling.
Be more of what vibes with your everyday best. If you are looking for a manual on how to be the best you can be everyday, THIS IS IT!!! Be all that you seek. Make sure your reality resembles your request.
Above all, you are the best you can be. You are just coming full circle to burst like a “Firework” reborn.
At last, this is your time to shine. You are the king of your jungle. Why not do the “Roar” to reclaim the victory that’s yours?